The Dog Lady

Ashwini Aiyar

Certified Canine Behaviorist

β€œTraining is not about obedience β€” it is about understanding. It is not that dogs don't listen; it's that they do not understand... and we do not understand them in return.”

β€” Ashwini Aiyar
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Ashwini is a multi-certified, force-free canine behaviorist with over 17 years of experience and more than 10,000 virtual sessions conducted across the United States and Canada. She specializes in complex behavior cases and guardian education, using clear, compassionate, science-based methods.

Her practice is rooted in two core commitments: improving the quality of life for captive animals, and strengthening communication and understanding between guardians and their dogs.

About Ashwini

Ashwini Aiyar with her dog

Dear reader,

With gratitude, I welcome you to this space.

My name is Ashwini, and I am writing to you from Sri Lanka, where I currently reside. If you've arrived here, it's likely you are seeking help for someone you love β€” a member of your family, even if they walk on four legs.

It is the story of a little girl, growing up in foster care, who knew nothing of family except for her dogs. I came from no wealth, no safety net β€” but I had my dogs, and they became everything to me. They were my family, my teachers, my salvation.

Later in life, as I struggled with my own mental health, they were the reason I survived. Truly. Not just the reason I am who I am β€” but the reason that I am.

I went on to deliver over 10,000 virtual training sessions to clients around the world β€” predominantly in the United States and Canada β€” helping dogs and their humans through some of the most complex behavioral challenges. I was later awarded a full scholarship to the renowned CSAT program β€” the first scholarship ever granted in its history. I earned this in honor of my own dog, Tinkerbelle, who suffered from separation anxiety and whom I could not save in time. Every case I take now is, in some way, for her.

Everything I do β€” every protocol, every case, every late-night email β€” is an act of service to the dogs I've loved and the people who have loved them.

If our paths cross, I hope I can be of service to you too.

Ashwini

Pet Life Coaching Solutions

Comprehensive support for every stage and challenge.

βœ“Puppy Foundations
βœ“Adult Dog Basics
βœ“New Rescue Transition
βœ“Separation Anxiety
βœ“Barking
βœ“Inter-Dog Aggression
βœ“Human-Directed Aggression
βœ“Fearfulness & Anxiety
βœ“Nervous / Shutdown Dogs
βœ“Leash Reactivity
βœ“Resource Guarding
βœ“Handling & Grooming Sensitivities
βœ“Routine & Structure Building
βœ“Cue Work

Client Reviews

Real words from real guardians I've had the privilege of supporting.

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β€œMy three-month puppy learned so much in the past month.”

I was debating between going to live classes or giving this online class a shot. So glad I did. Ashwini is absolutely an awesome trainer. Everything she teaches just comes naturally. Fun sessions. We'll try to keep up the good work and not disappoint our trainer.

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β€œAsh has been extremely helpful with my two very fearful bonded rescue dogs.”

They are really coming along.

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β€œTraining with Ash is always a pleasure.”

More importantly, my pup Lily enjoys it as well.

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β€œYou're an amazing trainer and person.”

Hey Ash, I'd like to say I highly appreciate you and your work with Frog. You're an amazing trainer and person.

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β€œYou are one of one β€” never forget that.”

We want to say thank you so much from the bottom of our heart for all of your help. It was a true and divine gift having such an incredible trainer like you. You gave us so much grounded advice and love for Ziggy. You are one of one, so never forget that.

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β€œI went from being afraid of my puppy to not being afraid.”

Ashwini is an incredible trainer. She's so kind, patient, funny, and most importantly, effective. I went from being afraid of my puppy to not being afraid. Thank you so much. Thank you. Thank you, Ashwini.

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